I am telling u About a
good conversation, I am writing This thing From Allen & barbara Peace
book.
How to Start a Conversation.
People form up to 90% their opinion about you in the first four
minutes of meeting you so It,s Critical to have effective ways ways to start
conversation in any situation. You have only three opening topics to choose
from to start the conversation.
- The Situation.
- The other person.
- yourself.
And only three ways to begin.
1. Talking about the situation.
Talking about the situation you are both in is usually the
simplest and easiest way to start. Simply look around the ask an open ended
question (How , Why, Tell me about, in what way?) about what u notice. This can
be done any where from Example-
At a Market : - " I notice you are buying Manchurian packet.
I have never known how to cook them. How do you prepare that?
At any Art Gallery: What do u think the artist was trying to say?
At a meeting : how did u happen to be at this meeting
etc...
2. Talking About the Other Person
People love to talk about themselves and are happy to respond to
any questions you ask about them.
At a Party:- " That's an interesting emblem on your
jacket. What does it stands for? "
At A Meeting : " I notice you voted for redevelopment of the
park. In what way do u think the park could be improved ?"
Etc...
3. Talking About Yourself.
The Rule is here simple - unless someone asks you a question
about yourself, your family, your possession or your occupation or your
occupation, They are simply not interested. When starting a conversation, Never
volunteer information about yourself unless someone asks.
THANK YOU FOR READING
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